For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. John 3:17
Judgment comes on the day God decides.
We’re given choices that guide our destiny.
If the Son doesn’t judge, why do we?
Because of the offense of Satan. God judged him, kicked him out of heaven, and threw him down to earth. He’s been offended ever since then, sharing it with you and me.
Everyone is offended over everything. Even made up stuff! Jesus gave us the way to become saved, not condemned. Through Him there is eternal life, abiding in the Father through the Son.
Being offended, bitter, and full of rage is choosing eternal life of darkness and sorrow. outside of the realm of God.
I can’t speak for you, but as for me, I chose life, abundant life, lived in the peace and fullness of God.